There are many people have special preference on dating a transgender woman. It is true that transgender women are stronger, more considerate, more open-minded and more feminine than cisgender women. If you are dating a transgender woman or you are planning to date one, you should expect double feelings of dating a cisgender. However, Transgender dating is different from dating a cisgender woman. Here are some tips on how to date transgender women. I hope you could have a wonderful trans dating experience with these tips.
The number one tips for dating a transgender woman is for you to treat us like any regular woman, which is also the number one rule of dating a transgender. The most thing we want is to receive the exact treatment that you would treat any regular and biological woman. We want you to accept who we are and embrace us with your heart. If you care for us and want us to feel safe with you, you shouldn't treat us any differently or give us some special treatment which you think we need and deserve. This is also the greatest respect you can show us.
Take us out in public and do not hide us. Many guys who date transgenders would feel shame about themselves and hide us. They never introduce us to his friends and never hold our hands in public. They carefully refuse out suggestions of going out in public. They may think they hide their feelings in a very discreet way that we won't notice. But too bad, transgenders are very sensitive. We know it very clearly. The more careful you act, the more painful we are. So if you really like us and really do want a transgender dating relationship with us, we need you to act and introduce us to your friends and take us out in public. Do not always invite us to your house on every date.
Do not ask silly questions unless we are willing to talk. Lots of guys think they are interested in us, therefore, they want to get to know us more by digging our history. Have you done your surgery? What is it like to be a woman? These kinds of questions are very offensive even we know you mean well. It is very rude if you ask these questions on out first date. We will let you know when the right time comes. Do not rush. Have some patient. The harder you rush, the further you push us. Never push us into getting surgery. Our body is not yours. Transgender dating can be tricky, but just pay some efforts, it will worth it.
Do not always talk about sex. Transgender is always seen as a fetish for some people. Even in sometimes, when talking about transgender, it would remind them of sex toy and other stuff related. It makes us so depressed for being mistreated for who we are. Therefore, transgender will be more sensitive about sex than regular people. Please do not constantly talk about sex in front of us. It will leave us a very bad impression.
Transgender dating can be very dreamy and comforting if you know how to treat us. Good luck to you.